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How to Cut the Date Short if you Find Your Male Date Boring

If you find your male date boring, then there are a few different ways that you can cut your date short. You will find that a lot of people will find themselves in this unfortunate situation from time to time and they will need to know how to get out of it.

Honest

Sometimes the only thing that you can do is just be honest and tell them that it is not working out. This way, you won’t have to deal with canceling out on them later on if you tell them that you have to go for other reasons. They may not want to hear it and it may seem harsh but the sooner that you tell them, the better you will be.

Fake Emergency

Some people like to have a fake emergency come up where they have to leave. They may have a friend in distress or they may have a family emergency that they have to tend to. If they do this they will usually end up having a friend call them at some point through the date to deliver the fake news to them. This is something that can help you to get out of the date a lot quicker. Alternatively you could frighten him off, tell him you have to get up early to go to the STD clinic as you are worried you may have caught something after having unprotected sex at a swingers party.

Unwell

If you don’t want to get your friends involved or have a fake injury, then you may need to pretend that you are suddenly coming down with something. Tell them that you have a terrible headache or that your stomach is bothering you and hightail it out of there.

Should You Arrive Fashionably Late for your Date

Some people think that they should arrive fashionably late for their date. This is something that you will need to think a lot about before you decide if it is something that you should do. There are a lot of pros and cons that go along with this so make sure that you understand why you should rethink this one.

Disrespectful

It can come off as very disrespectful to your date if you can’t take the time to show up on time. If you end up showing up late then you will already be off to a bad start. They may have already had the thought that they were stood up or that you lost interest in them. Starting the date by making your date feel unworthy and self conscious is never a good way to do it.

Selfish

It is a pretty selfish move to make your date take time out of their day waiting on you. They have a life outside of their date with you and will more than likely feel as though they are not important or that they do not factor at all whenever you are not on time for a date that you set with them.

Eager

Some people may believe that they are going to seem too eager if they show up early or on time to their date. This is why you will need to make sure that you if you are late that you keep it at just a few minutes so as not to come across like a jerk.